It seems like just anybody offers sex advice online, and I guess it’s easy enough…
But I was reading an article from Glamour found here called “30 Sex Tips Every Woman Should Consider by the Time She’s 30″ and almost choked when I read #4.
Their tip says “Sex Tip: Have a Totally Meaningless Hookup – Forget living happily ever after. Sometimes a girl just needs a guy to get busy with. No small talk—heck, you don’t even have to exchange numbers. Just pick the hottest guy at the bar and have as much fun as you want.”
What the heck is this? Forget living happily ever after? *slaps face* C’mon, that’s not good advice for ANYONE.
It’s fine for people to hookup, I’m cool with that but it’s not for EVERYBODY. And you shouldn’t tell young women that, before you’re 30 you MUST sleep with some dude you don’t even care about.
Honestly I got to #6 on that site before I closed it. <- don’t go just “playing” with his back door. If you catch him off guard you might spoil the mood.
The reality is there is no right answer that suits everyone. You don’t have to do any of those before your 30 to have an awesome sex life or relationship. In fact some of that advice will probably RUIN your relationship.
Do what feels comfortable. I think it’s great to provide people with lots of ideas and things they might not think about, but don’t tell people what you think they should do. Because that’s subjective. And in this case, it’s moronic.